Natural women V.S Dating

So the topic that came across today was "why does it seem like the only dudes who date naturalista women are dread head men or men who look extra hairy themselves with the long beard and scarfs on their heads?" Its very rare you see a clean cut brother with waves or braids dating a natural woman. hes always with the long wavy /straight weaved hair chick. OR IF the young woman hair is naturally long and if she decides to cut it the guy acts a little weird towards her and eventually she starts wearing weave until her hair grows back? Are the men brainwashed into the silky European look so much that there pressuring their lady to look the part? what do you think ?