Natural women V.S Dating

So the topic that came across today was "why does it seem like the only dudes who date naturalista women are dread head men or men who look extra hairy themselves with the long beard and scarfs on their heads?" Its very rare you see a clean cut brother with waves or braids dating a natural woman. hes always with the long wavy /straight weaved hair chick. OR IF the young woman hair is naturally long and if she decides to cut it the guy acts a little weird towards her and eventually she starts wearing weave until her hair grows back? Are the men brainwashed into the silky European look so much that there pressuring their lady to look the part? what do you think ?

Jetz All honesty: Letter2 Lee Thompson Young R.i.p My hollywood crus...

Jetz All honesty: Letter2 Lee Thompson Young R.i.p My hollywood crus...: I guess the honest reason why I cant believe this whole event is reality because watching you then and now there is so much growth .But I a...

Letter2 Lee Thompson Young R.i.p My hollywood crush since I was Little

I guess the honest reason why I cant believe this whole event is reality because watching you then and now there is so much growth .But I also know how it feels too be happy for a short time and depression to come knocking at your door no longer being a guest but apart of you. I been battling depression since the age of 9 and no I haven't got help because I cant afford it. But even then getting help and breaking through is a 50/50 chance. I have more days I dislike who I am, where I am and what i look like instead of liking who I am, where I am in life and what I look like. Its like no matter the pictures I post, the laughter's I have during the day a sad lonely feeling creeps up. Even being in a room full of friends don't help get my mind straight at times. Its hard waking up every morning working and putting on your love cap to share with others when most of the time you don't get it back.

Your passing has hit me in such away because I didn't have the courage after my few attempts to do what you have done . I promised myself I wouldn't go to the extreme to feel the need to take my own life and I haven't made an attempt since my nana passing away. I'm so sorry that you didn't or couldn't find another way to deal with the many things in your life that made you feel like giving up. I'm not saved but I do pray and wish that a humble soul like yourself go to the pearly gates and not down below .The spotlight blinded me and I would of never thought I see your name across the screen with r.i.p next too it, at least not for yrs too come. Things like this happen all the time but because of all the great things you've accomplished your situation has been all over the news. I do pray that the family finds strength in this sudden mishap and find away to forgive themselves if guilt is eating away at them.

I'm really heartbroken and knots are in my throat when saying your name now because I know if not completly ,a lil how you feel. Now I sort of see how others will react if I decided to cut my own path short. Those thoughts are no longer in my mind but the constant badgering to myself is. I am my worst critic and I know I need too change that. rest in heaven Lee for I hope you truly are at rest. I'm gonna miss you , I was so happy to see you back on the screen doing your thing. gone too soon but only god knows why. Peace

e and luv LEE PEACE AND LUV

Jetz All honesty: Too hot to Eat ?

Jetz All honesty: Too hot to Eat ?:          This 2013 summer 5 day heat wave has sent many to not feel hungry, I know this because I too really don't care for a meal as ...

Too hot to Eat ?

         This 2013 summer 5 day heat wave has sent many to not feel hungry, I know this because I too really don't care for a meal as of lately .With temperatures up in the 90 leaving residents across the tri state to deal with hotter weather then Florida and down south areas which are known to be the best hot vacation places, what can you do in this heat and what can you eat and drink in this heat? This time around Donkin donuts and Ritas and places that sell cold drinks businesses are booming ,they are the go to place especially Donkin donuts. 24 hrs service with this 24 hr heat give you the satisfaction to stay inside during the day and when temperature drop just a tad bit by night time you can sneak on out and get your coolata and smoothies. But as the news mentioned we need to stay away from caffeine it leaves you more dehydrated then you think. Water is good but the news has been booming about drinking Gatorade and power drinks to put minerals back into your body which is very important being they you'll be sweating a lot. Just like when athletes play hard and work up a good sweat we normal people lol will be doing the same thing just by standing still.
Now that we got the drinks in order what about foods. Well I personally have become a fan of buying big watermelons and chopping them up and freezing them. Instead of always going out buying ice cream fruit bars with high sugar and other things in it ,why not make your own natural fruit snack. This snack is so good I end up eating 2 big halves of watermelon and I don't feel guilty because it taste good and I feel good. Another snack or breakfast would be 2 slices of toasted bread wheat or regular with butter and jelly. This is light and fulfilling and holds me over from hunger for a good 3 to 4 hrs. Another good one would be toasted bread spread with peanut butter and apple slices on the side. We all know peanuts are a great source of a fat burner so with this food and the heat combined how can you go wrong?
Last but not least I can't forget to mention salads and subs ! These too will cover you when it comes to having an actual meal and itll leave you full and satisfied. With fast food places and quick checks giving you options of different subs and salads your taste buds can enjoy a different dish every day. These are a few things that worked for me and hopefully itll work for you too. We have to beat the heat not let it beat us !


*source of this picture is credit to tldm.org

Newton CT Fatal shooting : Reshaping schools while Regaining trust

  The tragedy that happen within coming weeks too Christmas  at Sandy Hook elementary school  struck the nation hard. Along with the town of  newton CT  ,nations around the world mouths were left wide open,eyes in blank mode and hearts so heavy you felt like a ton of bricks fell on you. With Christmas closing in every ones minds were focused on buying there children and loved ones gifts that would light up there faces and belly's full of food and aching from good laughter. But the act of 1 lost young man with disorders took away 20 young children 12 girls, 8 boys and 6 adult women and his own mothers life taken place at her home. Although many will without hesitation like to throw torches at the shooter he too was a victim. Not only too turning the gun on himself but to disorders people pay no mind too.Im not saying what the shooter did should be excused but he was a bright young man with no soul.
  If he took his own life without taking innocent little ones this tragedy would not hurt and affect as many people as it does. yes suicide is always hurtful but MURDER seems so UNFORGIVABLE that theres no coming back from it. These parents will be picking out small coffins instead of watching their children pick out their gifts from under the tree. The women who were teachers and protectors in the children's eyes wont make it home to be with their loved ones and sing carols and enjoy their holiday. The survivors wont see their teachers or classmates and will be scared because their safety net was taken from them. The surviving parents are scared to send their children back and feel guilty to even think about having a Christmas. This town is shattered and before they can even think about reshaping security they have to mourn.
 Radio station got calls called in from across the world talking about gun control as if the shooter went to the store and purchased it. Alot of times in cases like this gun buying would be an issue but these guns were from his family home. Callers want teachers to carry guns and to me that is stupid. The best and easiest way we can start  reshaping the school and regaining the towns trust  is by getting bullet proof classroom doors and windows and making sure each door has a lock. This is  a start in my eyes and idea that sounds much better then having teachers carry guns. Also  as scary as it may seem for young ones maybe all schools should have metal detectors. It'll be the same way if a child was boarding a flight and had to go through the security procedures to get on a plane.
 The world we live in is changing and you can never be too prepared but aware. peoples mental state of minds are getting worse by the day and we can no longer ignore illnesses that can harm others. Now report says that the shooters disorders shouldn't of caused rage but they also don't know what was going on in his mind . This young man killed his own mother,his security blanket . My heart goes out to everyone who was affected and I pray they find strength in this tough time . Even to the shooters family who are in disbelief and want answers as to why this happened as well. I will not bring this  situation up again as I respectfully would like to let these families mourn. I just wanted to throw out a suggestion as to how we can help reshape schools and basically help our Little ones feel secure again. There will always be some sick minded person out there plotting on ways to destroy whatever they can . I just wanted to give a hand and a prays for better days too come.

Its Not Your size Its the designers

So I work for a popular retail company thats been around for awhile .With competitor stores like JCpenny,Bloomingdales and macys selling the same vendors we do, the few dollar difference is key. Customers will quickly compare prices and fuss to you as if we're walmart and we're suppose to match the price. Well if price difference wasnt enough complaints from customers now their complaining about the cut. In this case this is a PROBLEM for most designer clothing companies which affects women of all sizes and ages.

Not only do I merchandise and help suggest items for customers but I also give them the women to women honesty talk. Alot of women are stuck on a size number for bottoms and tops and think they are gaining weight if they dont FIT into the merchandise."ITS NOT YOU LADIES ITS THE DESIGNERS". The fashion industry is booming with new designers from across seas who are trying to venture off into the u.s and the u.s are thrilled to get fresh fashion visions. But the down fall to trying these new designers is the cut and fit of the merchandise on us americans who are definitely cut different.
Its sort of sad to watch old ways be stormed by new ways because somethings are better left alone. Clothes are more then just fabric to women its a mood changer/confidence builder.For most women they have favorites and not so favorite designers because its all about how the clothing compliments her shape. But what happens when the new trend is telling you your not thin enough and your the average size of most American women starting at a size 6. Now there trying to say a size 6 is plus size and honestly most kids are bigger then a 6 now so imagine how an adult feels. Ladies its not the end of the world your not the problem you can take a breather.
Instead of beating yourself up and starving yourself shop around and always pick up 2 sizes because most likely your in between sizes. Get a feel for how the clothes run and if your wallet is comfortable spending that amount.Dont let a designer tell you how your suppose to look and be built you dont have to help build there dream line especially when theres so many more designers out there from right here in America who can relate to your body proportion. Although I feel bad for the older women who are comfortable with there size and have the mid section bulge and love handles. They are the original loyal customers who will spend alot of money but hey let that be the designers lost. Shop some where else and wear it well and fell confident again!